FASHION AND AGING

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I know of no law that dictates you have to let go when you reach a certain age. Do you?

So why does one see so many older ladies look so terribly old? Why, if you have everything working for you, do you want to look like a wet old bag?

Pamela is one girl that is not aging well, and only because she isn't looking after herself.




I have posted this photo before, but it is an excellent example of Pamela not caring for herself. It beats me why one doesn't always wanna look one's best. Now I am not saying you have to dress up at home, (although I think I am spoiled, my wife always looks her best, even at home) but to appear in public like this? I think it is shocking.




A perfect example of a girl that goes out of her way to look after herself, Cindy Crawford. I have never seen her looking any less than her best. Will you believe me if I tell you that Pam and Cindy is just about the same age, one year difference to be exact, and Cindy is older. If you look at the pics you will never say that.



Another girl who looks after herself well, Michelle Pheiffer. And she is a '58 model, a decade older than both above girls. I see a stunning girl, who cares about herself.



Dana Delaney, a '56 model, still looking stunningly beautiful and sexy.


So what does the law say about getting old(er). Always dress to impress, there is no law against long hair, short sexy dresses, high heels, make up and great hair styles.

I have to say one thing in Pam's favor though, she still has the legs, even if the ID drops a mite. And she is not shy to flaunt them.


Before I forget, the MysteryMouth in my previous post, very few got her right, but those sexy legs belong to none other than Audrina Patridge.

Enjoy the weekend!

SEXY LEGS: KATE WALSH AND FASHION.

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Grey's Anatomy star, Kate Walsh phoned me last night, she wanted to know why I have never featured her on my blog. (I can hear you saying: "yeah, yeah, dream on")
Ok, so she never called me, but maybe she deserves a little post on my humble blog.

I like Kate, not only does she always dress very fashionable, but she also obviously has quite sexy legs.
This 43 year old Irish Italian girl in my opinion has what it takes to make her man proud of her. (not that she looks 43, I would have guessed her in her mid 30's)

Blue is one of my favorite colors, and this figure hugging dress makes for a sexy, yet elegant, stylish look. And her eyes! Hmmmm, very sexy!



Very sexy dress, love the calve shape, but is it just me, or are those legs a mite thin? Be that as it may, ankle strap heels always look sexy, and the short dress and heels combo work well for her.


Mighty fetching outfit, and the lips? Well, red is my other favorite color.... definitely no lack of confidence here, she is oozing sex appeal and sophistication.



She looks stunning in this pic, love how the heels accentuate and shape her calves.


Red again....





So what do you guys think of Kate Walsh? Anything you would like to add? Let us know.

Just for fun, let's see how well you know your celebs, tell us who this sexy mouth belongs to. A tip, she also has extremely sexy eyes.



Hope your weekend is going to be fantastic!

LOSING THAT LOVIN' FEELING?

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Just visited my good friend Dorothy of Womensselfesteem blogspot. Her last post is about why couples lose interest, or that loving feeling.
It made me think, why?

I am no expert, but picture this, you look at your partner and there is no spark. What do you do, you still love him or her, but the flame is burning mighty low, little or no spark left.

From a man's point of view, or should I say my point of view, boring routine, same thing everyday could be the reason. You get up, you go to work, you come home, you eat, you sleep, you get up, you go to work...blah blah, blah fish paste. You basically live right past each other.
There is no excitement in the relationship anymore, no flame, no spark.

All is not lost, there is a way to get it back. How you ask. Again, this is purely my opinion as a non-expert.

My solution: Go back in time, go back to what you have done those many years ago when you were dating. Start dating again, make appointments, meet each other for a romantic dinner. Example: dress up like you used to when you were still dating, like when you still tried to impress him with your best assets. But do not dress together, dress at different venues, meet each other at the restaurant, or night club, or where ever you used to go when you were younger.

Tip: Do not dress like this...



Rather dress like this:



Or like this....



Be bold, be adventurous, daring, dress to impress, be an eye catcher, kick ass sexy. If you plan to meet at a night club, sit at different tables at first. Make eye contact, flirt, ask him to dance, use your imagination.

Go home in separate cars, the girl first, wait for him, open the door for him dressed like this....



Or like this...


I'll bet my bottom dollar you will have his heart beating at a fast canter, his breath catching in his throat, and soon he will be all over you! And for the next week he will have you, and only you on his mind.....and more than likely planning the next adventure.

Secret to this is, both parties have to be willing. You need to work together, communicate. This is but one example, there are many other, go away for a dirty weekend, make a date by calling him at work and invite him for a romantic dinner, etc, etc.

Bottom line is, get away from the everyday routine and start living again. Bring that adventurous spirit you had as a young couple, back into your relationship. You are only as old as you allow yourself to be. I am turning 50 in a few days, and the spark is still there, we believe that breaking the routine is very important to keep a relationship hot and moving. However, and I think it is important to keep this in mind, it is not always easy, we have two kids, both of us work, just like any other couple, but we make sure that we fit those alone together quality moments into our schedule, even if only once a week.

For the guys I attach an article with a few great tips.

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• How To Be Romantic To Your Girlfriend or Wife (personalsunitedstates.wordpress.com)

Example: Yolande dressed as a cowgirl for a country and western dance we went to. (We love dancing, and we go dancing quite a lot) Take it from me, a night out dancing always adds fuel to the love flame.



Let us know how you keep the love flame burning high, I am sure you use other ways, share with us.

Take care and enjoy the rest of the week.